I can’t believe how much of a blur the last two weeks of June turned into! And now, we’re already three days into July. Time really does fly when you’re having fun eh!
It’s a bit of an understatement to say that I haven’t written in a while, LOL. These past two weeks have been totally jam-packed with all sorts of plans, people, adventures, moments and just beautiful hot summer days, so I’m happy. I was living in those moments as fully as I could, I’d like to believe.
I’m just going to skim briefly over some of the things that happened but not go into depth about them. Let’s see… so last, last weekend (the 23rd – 24th weekend), was CRAZY busy – I slept over at Adrian’s on Friday night, went straight from his place to a bubble tea fest in downtown with Leila and Cory, and then went from downtown to Brampton and stayed there for about three days to attend a house party with all the cousins and also to do Felicity’s makeup for prom!
And then during the week, I slept over at Leila’s and we had a spa day! It’s been a while since I’ve gotten my nails done but it was so much fun to get them done again. And also during that week, Adrian met Avery, Leila and Krystal spontaneously and it worked out so well! I think this particular thing, I’m going to touch upon a little bit more in depth actually before I launch into this past weekend which was literally the epitome of a perfect summer weekend.
So on the Thursday of last week, I had plans to watch the game with Radha, Avery, and Leila in Mississauga and I ended up asking Adrian to come through as well if he was free, and he happened to be! Honestly, it meant a lot to me that he made the trek all the way out from Richmond Hill to Mississauga just to hang out with me and meet my friends and watch the game with us. We all ended up going for lunch, and then to a pub afterwards to grab a drink and just chill and Krystal ended up meeting us there!
Afterwards when I was walking him back to his car, he told me that our friendships are a reflection of who we are and there was no doubt that I was surrounded by some pretty great people. I’m glad he got along with everyone and them with him! He’s super friendly and easy to talk to, very personable and upfront about who he is, so it’s no surprise that he was able to be as comfortable as he was with everyone.
When I talked to Avery about him after, he said he liked Adrian and gave him his “approval” LOL – he noted that he was friendly and funny, well-spoken, well-mannered and easy to talk to as well. He commended his taste in music and sports, and said he seemed mature.
He also pointed out that Adrian seemed different than the rest – he mentioned that Adrian seemed to challenge me more, that he makes me comfortable but also isn’t afraid to speak up and make me think.
Avery has been there for me through some of my worst moments; he saw directly what I went through with Don, happened to literally physically be there when I found out about the things that happened with Nick (the sexting, and the cheating). He’s probably one of the only people in my life who has actually witnessed what I went through in the moments that they happened. Even though I know not to hold stock in what other people think (especially when it comes to my relationships), I do consider his opinion important and I’m happy he saw what he saw and gave me his input; it meant a lot to me.
Even Krystal messaged afterwards to tell me that meeting Seb was lovely, she’s such a sweetheart. I would love to double date with her some time! It seems like all of us would really get along, LOL.
I’m really glad that Radha came as well. Not only was it nice to see her catch up with everyone, I’m sure her being there also had a hand in making Adrian feel comfortable with everyone as well. It all ended up working out perfectly, no pressure whatsoever.
Anyways, as much as I do want to talk about how incredible this past weekend was and as much as I’d like to update myself on me and my current mental, emotional, spiritual and physical state of being, this day is slowly dwindling to a close and I’m finally going back to work tomorrow. So, I think I shall hit the hay for the time being.
It was so nice to get back to writing though! I have a mission for this month thanks to a new book that I’m reading, and also I had a series of lovely revelations today that I would like to make note of in regards to my perspectives on detachment and spirituality.
Like I said at the start of last month – I’ll do my best to write every day. But you know what I’m realizing? Life’s not really meant to be documented to the T, is it? It’s meant to be lived. As presently and fully as possible. So… I’ll write when I can.
Until next time!
Love always, always and in every way,